Intentional Harm!

''I am Sorry, It just happened'' -Or common excuse on mistakes, isn't it? Yes there are things , which sometimes just happen , and we do not have control over it . Yesterday  my 3 year old went to play in a  backyard , and it started raining and she got drenched. She returned all wet. She thought she might get scolded, she explained, mumma , is just happened. And yes that's true, when things just happen , those are product of circumstances and you may not have control over them.But then there are things which we often term as 'Just happened' but they do not, they happened because you let them Happen!! Such things are planned or programmed. Things are planned when you have planned a date, an appointment, or a vacation. You have arranged dates for the same, decided the venue, such things cant be put in 'Happened' category. These are things you Let them happen, because you did them, and you wanted to do them.  Such things are not product of circumstances but are products of choice. If someone is doing something with the known outcome and if it is not in favor of others or in favor of the society is NOT JUSTFIED!! Its like the  well educated man turns a terrorist , plans all the bomb blasts and seeks the mercy. The planned things are worse as they are done with intentions and are purely against humanity. And such things do not deserve a mercy. I think I  am able to get that message correctly. It was just an example. This can happen to us at a personal level too  Our near and dear ones, friends, office mates  can do this to us. They might do something which is not in favor of our relationship with them, as a relative, as a friend, as a colleague or an employee, but if they plan all these things to happen, it means they always wanted to do it , whether those things are not in your favor, and might use the excuse 'it happened'.. I think we should not fall prey to their tactics. This way they go on , carrying out what they want , and make themselves feel so helpless, that we tend to forgive them  for the things those shouldn't have happened.  It's not just they, sometimes even we do this to our near dear ones. Point is , try to see the difference.. People deliberately do the things and pretend as they were not in their control, we have to be aware of such people, they are the real vampires, emotional vampires. Our society, our lives should be free of such anti-humanity elements, such emotional vampires!!! We should be aware to understand the intentions of people around us, things happening to us , were they really brought by circumstances or intentionally done. If we are good at analysing it , we can keep such toxic people out of our lives.

Lesson..

Do Not Flow With The Wind..
You Will Be Far From The Source ..
But Nowhere..

Don't even stick to your source, 
upgrade, explore.
But with a path , that has a direction..
And the voluntary force that comes within
that drives you.

Then don''t bother how far you have gone..

You are still connected to your source 
as you have direction in your life, a plan and a map to direct you ..

So follow that .. And you will achieve for sure ...
A Lesson Learned from a Life!! :)